“Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in name, nor do the children of man as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” ~ Hellen Keller
As cliché and played as this phrase is, it has moved me to do a lot of things in my life. Whenever one starts to feel restless or unsatisfied, that scary sense of change and the unknown is near. And once we can sense that change is necessary, we try to analyze whether it would be wise to act on these feelings or not.
- Should I go up and talk to the pretty girl?
- Should I quit my job and travel the world?
- Should I have studied something else?
We are in some current situation, that for whatever reason is undesireable to us so we mull over different outcomes in our heads. And far too often I find people erring on the side of caution, sticking with their current unhappy state just because it is familiar, safe, and convenient. Stop this thinking immediately. It is detrimental to your health, your relationships (I’m sick of hearing about how you hate your job), and society.
The most incredible people I have met in my life are ones that fully embrace change. They feed off of it and they grow as people, always open to new things and taking intelligent risks. Because it all comes down to “what is the worst that could happen?” The answer is, not much.
I plan to quit my job in May, travel the world for a bit, and then come back and start a company. This is not an option that most poeple would take. They would rather continually work for 40 years at various jobs that pays 5% better than the previous one they had, so that they can enjoy a nicer hotel and maybe a first class flight to wherever they plan to spend the only two weeks of the year that are truly theirs. Fuck that.
So what will I do when I quit my job, travel, start a company, and it fails (which is certainly possible)? I truly have no idea, but when it’s framed within “What’s the worst that could happen?” the answer is surprisingly, not much. I’m without steady income for a couple years and the business fails, so I get another job. Not ideal, but far from incapacitating me for the rest of my life. I’ll have taken a chance on something I really wanted to do, see some cool stuff around the world, and only have to answer to myself. And the upside is infinite.
So tell me, what is the worst that could happen?